When Adults are with Children, Watch Out for These Behaviors

While, individually, the following behavioral traits do not mean an adult is a child predator … a combination of certain behavioral traits do need to, seriously, send up red flags.

Predators will often use teasing and demeaning words to laugh off, or deny … a child from setting boundaries in physical closeness.

Predators will insist on touching, hugging a child, even when it is clear the child does not want the attention.

Many predators will use “tickling” or “wrestling” “games” to get physically close to a child.

Predators may make a habit of “accidentally” walking in on a child who is in a bathroom, or a room, where the child may be changing clothes.

While it may be just “misguided” parenting … predators do allow, if not encourage … children to get away with inappropriate behaviors.

If he/she seems “too good to be true” … then, more than likely … he/she is.  This person may want to babysit, frequently, without pay, or likes to buy an excessive number of gifts, gives them money … or likes to take them out, often … on “special outings,” … alone.

Lastly … and, this is most certainly something I can attest to:  He/she points out sexual images and makes suggestive, vulgar jokes with children present … and … will expose the child to adult sexual interactions or images, without concern for the child’s presence.  And … heed this … they are overly interested in the sexuality of a particular child or teen. (ie, a female child’s developing breasts, etc.)

 

Debbie Barth:11/07/2018 at 3:49 pm ET
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Debbie Barth is the author of The Promise Book: Tell Someone.  Her goal is to aid parents who understand the necessity of talking to their children about child predators in way that doesn’t confuse or scare them.
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The Sick Hypocrisy of the Left

Kathy Griffin … the bloody head.  Madonna … dreaming about blowing up the White House.  Antifa beating up pedestrians.  A teacher pretending to shoot President Trump in front of her students.  Snoop Dog, shooting the President in a Video. And … a play depicting the assassination of our President.

Corey Booker- “Get up in the face of some congresspeople”

Maxine Waters – “”Let’s make sure we show up wherever we have to show up. And if you see anybody from that Cabinet in a restaurant, in a department store, at a gasoline station, you get out and you create a crowd. And you push back on them. And you tell them they’re not welcome anymore, anywhere.”

Eric Holder – “when Republicans “go low,” Democrats should “kick them.”

Hillary Clinton suggesting there will be no civility until “we” regain power.

Former President Obama’s only response to “What do we want, dead cops … when do we want it … now” chant was that “he understood the anger.”

Truthfully … there is only one person or group responsible for sending out the packages with bombs (none of which, at the time of writing, was detonated,) no one else.

However … for the Democrats and left media to put the blame on President Trump because of his … rhetoric … is sheer lunacy and the sickest form of hypocrisy.

 

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Debbie Barth: 10/25/2018 at 10:36 pm ET

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Is the Left Behind the Bomb-Packages Today?

I swear I am not a conspiracy theorist and I’m sure I have friends that would back me up on that. But … this “bomb threat” of five people on the left … is just not ringing true to me. How about you?

  1. Not one of the Five packaged bombs detonated.
  1. The bombs were sent to locations where the “intended” would not have actually picked up and opened the package.
  1. The above 1 and 2 is for all FIVE “bombs.” In effect … the intended recipients …were never in real harm.

After the calls for violence came from people like Booker, Holder, Harris, and Waters … and … encouragement/understanding of violence from Obama and Clinton … perhaps, someone on the left decided they needed a “face-lift” before the mid-term elections.

Could it really be true that this was a ruse by the Democrats to drum up some sympathy and support from their base and … hopefully, increase their chances for wins in the House and Senate? Can they be that desperate and low?

But wait, there is another side. Yes … this really could be some misguided kind of “message” by a right-winger or right-wing group.

It could be the first of a wave of bombs. Bombs that will detonate, next time.

Whichever is the case … someone was successful in disrupting the afternoon and the need for a huge police presence in all the areas … the cordon of multiple areas … bomb experts … the FBI … and a lot of time investigating today’s events.

If this was an attempt at mass murder, the person or group proved their ineptness.

But, if this was a warning or message to “scare” Democrats, the person (or group) behind this have wasted a lot of time and have ruined their lives and their families … when, and if caught.

There is also the possibility that this was a “first wave” of future, more deadly attacks.

I frankly don’t know what to expect, regarding the investigation, now underway.

What I do believe is … if the investigation does not lead to the arrest of a person … or persons … there will always be that lingering feeling that this was no more that an elaborate ruse by someone in the Democrat Party … be it an official or a left-wing organization.

 

https://www.foxnews.com/politics/suspicious-packages-addressed-to-obama-clinton-others-a-full-list-of-recipients

 

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Debbie Barth: 10/24/2018 at 7:32pm ET

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DR. SEBASTIAN GORKA EXPLAINS THE MEDIA’S ADULATION OF KHASHOGGI … SO WELL

I have wondered why the liberal media has given the death of Jamal Khashoggi so much coverage and adulation.  Yes, it was a very gruesome death … according to “sources.”  But, there has been much less coverage of the shootings in Chicago … or … of the man nearly beaten to death with a bicycle lock in Bryant Park, Manhattan, N.Y … than there has been about this Saudi nationalist, opinion writer … with dubious family connections.

Khashoggi was the nephew of late, high-profile Saudi Arabian arms dealer Adnan Khashoggi, known for his part in the Iran-Contra scandal, who was estimated to have had a net worth of US $4 billion in the early 1980s.

Khashoggi was a first cousin of Dodi Fayed, who was dating Diana, Princess of Wales, when the two were killed in a car crash in Paris.

Khashoggi was a friend of the Osama Bin Laden family … and, had several meetings with Osama, before September 11, 2001.

I wonder just how much Jamal Khashoggi really knew about the impending tragedy of Sept. 11, or the real truth behind the car crash that killed Fayed and the Princess of Wales.

I agree with the comments made by Dr. Sebastian Gorka.  I believe the article he wrote for American Greatness, entitled “Why the Media Couldn’t Care Less About Khashoggi” is simply brilliant and … a must read.  His comment within the article and the link to the article is below.

“Khashoggi did not deserve to be killed. At the same time, in their coverage of his murder, the majority of the American media has proven that they do not deserve America’s respect.” … Dr. Sebastian Gorka

https://amgreatness.com/2018/10/20/why-the-media-couldnt-care-less-about-khashoggi/?fbclid=IwAR1n60DpULVW4Znggx3vm5Sxs_15FjOyILVknikQgglxau-iy8AhrKTCAck

 

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 Debbie Barth: 10/23/2018 at 12:23 pm ET

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Hear The One About The Man Who Crashed Into a Broadcasting Studio?

A man deliberately crashes into the Fox 4 studio, in Dallas, and screams … “Treason!”

Once he is locked away from sane people … he should have lots of time for reading. I suggest … the dictionary would be a great start.

He is another person who has been manipulated by the Democrat/Socialist/Left.

They don’t care that he faces jail time. They don’t care that he now has a criminal record (of course, he may already have one) and … they don’t care about any financial loses he may now incur …. nope … he might get a pat on the head … maybe.

And one day … if there is still a live brain cell in the gooey mass floating inside his head … he may realize … he was used.

Ref:

http://www.fox4news.com/news/man-arrested-after-crashing-truck-into-fox4-building-in-downtown-dallas

 

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Debbie Barth: 9/05/2018 at 1:45 pm ET

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PIMPS RECRUITING GIRLS ON FACEBOOK AND INSTAGRAM

A Fort Worth pimp known as “Zigg” has been sentenced to life in federal prison for sex-trafficking children in a statewide operation that existed for more than a year.

He and other co-defendants provided cellphones, rooms, lubricants and condoms, and used threats of violence, sexual assault and intimidation to control the victims, according to federal prosecutors.

Some of the young girls were recruited on Facebook and Instagram.

Child predators, pimps, and child traffickers are no longer limited to a certain locale in their hunt for vulnerable small children and teenagers.  The internet has given them a world-wide audience in which to find and trap their prey.

The predators use social media sites to seek young and impressionable children, offering them jobs as models or a part in a movie that doesn’t exist.  Predators feed on the insecurities and naiveté of the young, and … are experts at manipulation and entrapment.  Predators start with the very young.  As a parent … so should you!

I suggest you talk to your children about child predators at the earliest age appropriate for your child.  Explain what a child predator is and where they can be found.  Explain to your child, the methods often used by a child predator.  Knowledge is the best protection you can give your child.

Ref:  https://www.star-telegram.com/news/local/community/fort-worth/article215978610.html

 

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Debbie Barth: 9/04/2018 at 5:35 pm ET

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I WANT TO TELL YOU ABOUT TWO MAJOR IMPACTS OF CHILD ABUSE

According to the National Child Abuse Coalition.org, below are two impacts of child abuse.  I should know.  I experienced them.

  • Child abuse and neglect impede the brain’s development and have long-term consequences for cognitive, language, and academic abilities.
  • The emotional effects of abuse and neglect can contribute to low self-esteem, depression, and relationship difficulties.

I know that I initially made very good grades in schools … and, then … I wasn’t.  I remember my elementary school so much more vividly than any other grade-level.  I remember the smells in the class rooms of chalk, crayons, and books.  I remember sitting with schoolmates in the cafeteria, making faces … swapping foods …and, the chatter.  I remember running in the playground, playing Red Rover …sharing secrets with friends … and, the laughter.

I don’t remember, however … the exact date … it stopped.  I don’t remember the date I started making average grades (if that good.)  I don’t remember when the school became less a place of learning, games, fun and friendships, and more of a place of solace and retreat.

I don’t remember when I stopped wanting to share … “secrets” with my friends.  I can’t remember when I felt more in control, when alone.  I can’t remember when I started feeling inadequate or taking offense at anything someone said … and, striking back at them … often, much to their surprise.  I can’t remember the date I placed an invisible shield around me.

I do remember … it wasn’t long after … the sexual abuse started.

Ref:  https://nationalchildabusecoalition.org

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Debbie Barth: 8/30/2018 at 5:52 pm ET

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THINK OF OPEN BORDERS AS A TEENAGE PARTY GONE TERRIBLY WRONG

Finally, … it’s out in the open.  Most knew it … but now the Democrats and the Globalists are openly saying it.  And “open” is the operative word.  Yes, they are screaming for open borders.

And, I’m surprised how many Americans are actually falling in line.

Maybe they don’t realize that if we have no borders, we have no republic … no America.  Maybe they … think … they don’t care.  So, let me try to explain it this way.

Think of open borders as a teenage party gone terribly wrong.  You are the teenager.

Your parents have gone away for the weekend.  You decide to invite a couple of friends over, texting them to bring the booze as you are supplying the place.  Your friends are all in and decide they want some of their friends to come.  You think, no harm … the more … the merrier.  Then somebody posts the party and address in social media, without you knowing.

The first hour or two is fun, and in fact … you are meeting some cool, new people.  Then you notice that it’s not just one or two people coming into your home who you do not know … but small groups of people.  The music is getting louder and louder … everyone is freely enjoying the beer and liquor that, seems to be abundant, although no one is of legal age to purchase.  And, you notice that familiar aroma of pot filtering through the home.  You start to feel a small … tiny sense of foreboding … but, what the heck … it’s just a party … and, everyone seems, nice enough.  That is … until they not.

You set boundaries … no one upstairs … no one in the bedrooms … use the guest bathroom and stay on the main floor.  You even add a “please” just so the party goers aren’t offended by your requests.

But now, you see people upstairs, going into the bedrooms, shutting doors.  People are rooming around freely, ignoring your wishes completely.

You stopped drinking an hour or so ago … you are beginning to get very uncomfortable.  Then … you see some idiot dancing on the sofa, spilling beer all over the beige fabric, and others, cheering her on.  You hear the sound of glass being broken, but you’re not sure in which direction.

People are still coming in through the front door.  It’s time to stop the madness.

You turn off the music … flip the lights a few times and yell … “everybody, time to leave.”  No one leaves, instead, they laugh at you … tell you that they aren’t going anywhere … and … you can’t make them.

A couple of your friends see what is going on and come to help you … telling people they have to leave.  That’s when the scuffle starts.  First, it is loud words, then pushing, and, finally… blows are landed.  There are shots … you see a friend wince in pain … and, only then … do people start running out the door.  You hear the sirens approaching … cell phones are ringing … and … you … are standing there … looking around at the devastation the “welcomed guests” left behind.

What was a pristine, warm home … just a few hours ago … is now cluttered with beer bottles, empty liquor bottles, cigarette burns … broken lamps, and drug paraphernalia.  Your friend is lying on the floor, covered in blood … and, your parents … the ones who gave you their trust to abide by their rules in their absence … are on the way home.

The likelihood of finding the “guests” who were unruly, disrespectful … and … created the damage … have simply vanished.  They are not going to held legally and financially responsible for the devastation to the home … or the physically assault on a friend.

You are just standing there … looking around … wondering how it could have gotten so out-of-control.

And … we are back!

I know there are some who will say I’m accusing all illegals who come here as vandals, drug addicts and criminals.  If so … you are still missing my point.

My point is that “open house-parties” don’t usually work out so well … any more than “open borders.”  Common sense tells you that if you invite someone who you know nothing about into your home, there is always a … possibility … of danger.

At the same time … if you bring someone into your house you know … or have fully vetted … and suit whatever your purpose for that meeting is … chances are it benefits you and your guest.

I know of no one … and, that includes me … who doesn’t welcome legal immigration in this country.  I believe America does love it’s legal … vetted … immigrants who have waited in line, gone through the process, and, come here with love in their hearts and the goal of assimilation.

It is the issue of illegal aliens who disregard our process and our laws that must be resolved.  Clearly … with the murders of Kate Steinle, Mollie Tibbetts … and the increase of “Angel Moms” in America … we are actually becoming the host of a party that is going terribly wrong.

 

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Debbie Barth: 8/24/2018 at 2:22 pm ET

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TOMMY ROBINSON FREED—BUT FOR HOW LONG

You may remember that Tommy Robinson was thrown in a British jail and given a 13-month sentence, for standing outside of a courthouse and reporting/filming a case where four Muslim men raped a 16-year-old girl after she had asked them for directions.  I do identify them as Muslim because of the many reports, in the U.K., of Muslim gangs raping young girls. I do feel this is pertinent.  Robinson claimed he was waiting there to interview one of the four men about the case.

Reports of his treatment during trial … a biased trial against Robinson, and … the abrupt and harsh sentence … outraged many of Robinson’s supporters.  Then, the reports of him being housed in an area with other Muslim men who were serving time for rape and other crimes and deliberately putting him in physical danger … boiled the “pot of rage” over for his supporters.

Robinson’s supporters had claimed that 13 months in prison was the same as a death sentence, considering the presence of Muslim gang members in prison. They also claimed that, while he may have breached a reporting ban, the law was applied harshly and unfairly to him.

On Wednesday, the Court of Appeal said the initial ruling was made after a “fundamentally flawed” process.

However, he is out on bail … and, could actually be placed back in jail.  And, so … the Tommy Robinson saga … continues.

Ref:

http://www.foxnews.com/world/2018/08/01/right-wing-activist-tommy-robinson-freed-on-bail-after-appeal-win.html

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/tommy-robinson-prison-jailed-why-contempt-court-grooming-gangs-muslim-protest-a8472566.html

 

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Debbie Barth:8/01/2018 at 11:10 am ET
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SOCIAL MEDIA SITE HAS TO … ASK … IF PEDOPHILES SHOULD BE COMMUNICATING WITH CHILDREN ON ITS WEBSITE?

I do get why social media sites regularly send out surveys to their users. Surveys allow the media sites the ability to create programs which draw new users and maintains current users.  On the flip side, it feeds the “collective thinking” mentality which is festering in this and other countries.  But … what does it say about our social online communities when the need is felt to ask users how they feel about pedophiles asking children for sexual pictures?

This was asked in a survey created by Facebook employees.

In 2016, an investigation by the BBC uncovered numerous private Facebook groups by and for men with a sexual interest in children to share images, with one run by a convicted pedophile. Photos of children taken from their parents’ Facebook accounts have also been found on pedophile sites.

In 2017, the BBC flagged dozens of images and pages containing child pornography.  Of the 100 reported images, 18 were removed by Facebook, according to the BBC.  At the time, the BBC said Facebook asked to be sent examples of the images and then reported the broadcaster to the child exploitation unit of Britain’s National Crime Agency.

I find the ineptness of Facebook employees to find and weed out pedophiles, a little more than just … disheartening.  And, for there to be any question as to whether or not pedophiles should be allowed groups, comments and/or to ask children for sexual pictures is way beyond bizarre.

But, this is the world we live in, today.  Child predators, pedophilia, and sex trafficking is not going away.  In fact, it seems to be on the increase.  And, social media has, indeed, become a conduit for deviant and depraved activity.  Unfortunately, children are easily lured into their web.  Most parents think this could not or would not happen to their children.  And yet … many of those same parents have never sat down and had a serious talk about child predators with their small children.

It is time … it is past time.  When social media asks users about whether or not known pedophiles should have … any … communication with children … the warning is ever clear, obvious … and, foreboding.

Ref:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/2018/03/05/facebook-asked-users-if-pedophiles-should-able-ask-kids-sexual-pictures/395535002/

 

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Debbie Barth: 7/31/2018 at 3:33 pm ET
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