I make it a habit to respect other people’s Facebook profile pages, therefore, when I see something that I don’t agree with, or that is downright upsetting … I just keep on moving. And, I expect the same respect from others, concerning my page. Now, that does not mean that I will not let off a little steam on MY profile. So, here goes.
I just read some “words of wisdom” from someone … which is, in my opinion … the worst advice one could give, but … does sum up why America is no longer a well-respected country, known for its pride in ,.. and commitment for … excellence.
This “Life Guru” suggests there is no difference is a $5.00 bottle of wine and a $200.00 bottle of wine. It’s just “grape juice.” I would suggest the Guru as never had a really good $200.00+ bottle of wine. There is most certainly a difference.
The Guru suggests that there is no difference in a Honda or a Mercedes-Benz … both will “get you there.” I would suggest that it isn’t just about the “destination” … it IS about how you get there, as well. I could go on and use the modest home/mansion example (it’s all just living space to the “Guru.” … clothes …. on and on. Trust me, there is a difference.
What really bothered me was the “Life Guru’s” suggestion to parents to tell their children to not strive to be rich … but to be … “happy.” My thought is … why not strive for both.
For one thing, happiness is not reserved only for those without a lot of money. And, “rich” can mean different things to different people. Basically, for some, just being able to pay bills and live in a comfortable home is rich. The one thing I don’t understand, however, is … when “rich” became such a bad thing?
Per the “life Guru” … instead of parents encouraging their child to excel, work hard and to strive for the best life possible … to his or her ability (which also benefits the his/her children he/she brings into the world, by the way) … just do whatever “makes him/her” happy.
Perhaps, studying Greek history, or pottery. The inference is one doesn’t need a lot of money to be “happy,” so why bother knocking yourself out? Just be average, don’t strive for anything more than you need, and just … “have fun.”
Are today’s parents seriously not encouraging their children to be the best they can be? Are they seriously telling their children that they will never be happy driving an expensive car, having a beautiful home, and living life to the fullest?? Are they seriously saying don’t work hard just to make more because “you can’t be happy … and rich?”
Being highly successful … personally and financially is not only about the money. Even more importantly, it’s about feeling good about oneself. It’s about the pride one feels when one looks around at his/her accomplishments. It’s about one’s self-worth. Those attributes are priceless. But those attributes are earned, not just given. The home, the cars, the clothes … yes … they are secondary. They are the residuals of the hard work. And … they can be awesome residuals!
My point is this … instead of this “Life Guru” suggesting that parents tell the children not to strive for “rich” (whatever that is to an individual) …but to “be happy, instead.” How about we tell how children to strive for both. It is attainable … and a heck of a lot more rewarding.
Debbie Barth: 04/04/2017 at 2:46:15 pm EDT
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